Stupid in LOVE: Why Do Women Take Cheating Men Back?

By |2014-01-10T16:46:28+00:00January 10th, 2014|Categories: Lifestyle, Relationship & Sex Advice|Tags: |0 Comments

Yeah, R. Kelly said it. “When a woman loves she loves for real,” but are we loving our man so much that we forget to love ourselves? Where does the line get drawn, for being stupid in love and just plain stupid? Time and time again when the man steps out in the relationship the woman makes the decision to forgive him with the thinking that he would never do it again because he almost lost her indefinitely. A woman that can forgive a man that has stepped out on her is stupid in love! The moment you find out that your man was unfaithful you start to think your world is ending. You allow your emotions to get the best of you and next thing you know you begin to think that being with him is better than being without him.

Why as women can’t we love ourselves enough to know when it's time to let go?

Stupid in Love

Stupid in Love

When you find yourself forgiving your man for the fourth and fifth time for the same thing, you are no longer stupid in love you are just plain stupid. I say this all the time, a man would only do to you what you allow, and by continuously forgiving him you’re giving him permission to do you wrong.

Stupid in Love

Stupid in Love

A relationship is a partnership between two people, not three, not four, but two. Some men forget that and have women on the side to do what their main woman isn’t, or maybe he just found something attractive about her that he just had to have. Ether way when the main woman finds out being stupid in love she begins she ignores him for two or three weeks then goes right back to him.

Stupid in Love

Stupid in Love

When a woman has been with her man for a long time, she tends to let him get away with a lot, including fathering a child outside of their relationship. This is because we are afraid to start over and find someone new, after all that is time consuming right? Moving on from a man that clearly stepped out on you is the best thing that you can do for yourself. And let me say a woman that would stay with a man that fathered a child outside of their relationship is STUPID. Their will no longer be trust in the relationship, and every time he goes out you’re going to be snooping like the FBI, so don’t do it to yourself and just move on.

Stupid in Love

Stupid in Love

If a man would deny his child after his friend implemented the idea that it’s not his baby, why would you want to be with him anyway? He clearly is not a man but a boy if he can be easily influenced. Wanting to continue a relationship with a man that denies his child is a sign of a woman stupid in love.

Stupid in Love

Stupid in Love

When you find yourself contacting the other woman about your man, he is no longer your man. If he can make the decision to be with another woman behind your back, then you should be able to make the decision to leave him. Staying with him not only makes you stupid but weak, because a smart strong woman knows her worth, and would not put up with infidelity. If a man really loves you he would show you by being faithful and respecting your relationship. A lot of women get fooled by what they think is love and end up hurt and resenting men, don’t be one of them. Are women selling themselves short for love? If a woman forgives her man for stepping out on her for the fourth time is she stupid in love or just plain stupid?

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