The dynamics of a relationship can be complex or so we think. At times it can seem complex but when your focus is to please and cater to your partner your partner can only return the favor.(If he doesn't he is a loser.) Ladies, this is your opportunity to cater to your man and see how that works so get out the oils, candles, rose petals, sexy lingerie and music to make him feel like he is appreciated and is someone special in your life. Here are a couple songs we cooked up to get you and your man in a great place but before we get to that list let's go over 5 things a man most likely wants:
1. $ex, $ex & &ex – You can get a man to eat out your hand if you can do this act just how he likes it. If you can teach him a thing or two that's event better. (Don't seem too professional. lol)
2. Give us our personal time. He needs time to think and relax. He may need time to do his favorite hobby or watch his favorite show or sport. It helps him not to feel trapped and frustrated.
2. Freedom to make decisions. If he wants to eat ham instead of turkey … let him. Let him make all the small decisions so you have a better chance to persuade him when it comes to the big decisions.
3. We want our woman to be sexy. Don't just be a lady but be his sexy lady. So that's where the music and lingerie come in. Make sure he remembers exactly how much more sexy you are compared to those other women out there.
4. Respect Him. This should have been number one but all of these things work together. In order to make your man happy you have to do these things right. Respect is just uplifting him and being his cheerleader. Make sure he knows you respect him by the way you talk to him and treat him.
5. Talk to him and let him know how you feel. Men are not great at figuring out things using complicated clues. He needs you to break it down for him.
Catering to your man has many steps but a night filled with amazing music and other fun activities is a step in the right direction. Nothing sooths the soul more and gets you more in the mood than music. make it a night to remember. (If you can do these things right he will say yes more often.)
What are some songs we missed that you may use to get you and your partner in the mood?
(Relax… songs are not in a specific order.)
Kelly Price – As We Lay
This is a great song for you and the hubby. This is for the lovers â¦ just put it on and enjoys each others company.
Trina Broussard â Inside My Love (Love Jones)
This is a jazzy soft, sensual song that gets you right in the mood. It is mature and speaks to you. This is one for a date night you want to make into a great night. (You can’t go wrong with the Love Jones movie or soundtrack.)
Floetry â Its Getting Late
Floetry just know how it is done. This is for those moments when you know its getting late but your fighting between if he should go or stay. (Just let him stay if he has been doing the right things.)
Teedra Moses – Backstroke
There is something innately sexy about Teedra Moses and her music. Backstroke is one of those joints that just makes you want to do something physical so find that special someone and get going.?
Shanell â 101
Put this one when you want your man to go to “work”. Tell him like Shanell tells us, “I’ll give you an A if you earn it.” Â
Rihanna â Skin
If you want to know how to be bad girl sexy then just follow Rihanna. Skin is raw and will get you ready for a rough (in a good way) night.
Adina Howard â Nasty Grind
When it comes to making that bump n grind music Adina Howard knows how to bring the freak out of you so don’t fight it just let it go. Your man will love it.
Marsha Ambrosius – Late Nights & Early Morning
This beat is all consuming along with her sexy voice. Play this when you want to have great morning $#X.
Keri Hilson – Make Love
It’s simple â¦ just make love.
K Michelle â I Just Wanna
K. Michelle is really direct and just really want to get off. Luckily, men wouldn’t mind being treated like a piece of meat â¦. SOMETIMES.
JS – Ice Cream
Ron Isley helped these ladies blast off but this joint is a sexy track that is all them. Maybe feeding your man ice cream would be a great idea when you put this on with some lingerie. YUMMY!
Janet Jackson â Warmth and Moist
Nothing can really compare to the sensual energy of Janet Jackson. Just follow her directions.
Jill Scott â All IÂ
Jill Scott has always had the ability to set such a sultry and relaxed mood. She does it with “All I” and it feels like you just need to have a slow love making session when you throw this record on.
Janet Jackson â Funny How Time Flies
This song is sexy and it should be played while making love. Janet Jackson knows how to do it nice and nasty.
Faith Evans â Soon As Get Home
Maybe you should text this to your man while your both at work to get him excited about you coming. When you and your man get home it should be a time when you and him can bound and relax. This may be the sexiest thing you can do. Your man will have no problem with you acting out the lyrics to this song.
Ciara â Ride
She tells you exactly how she is going to ride it and it sounds so good. Just let the music play and ride away with your man.
Floetry â Say Yes
Floetry have to be one of those female groups that have been able to figure out what is sexually pleasing to our ear. In Say Yes, they give you a blueprint to follow â¦ just follow it.?
Janet Jackson â DisciplineÂ
Sometimes being disciplined can be a fun and sexy thing especially when Ms Jackson (You know she’s nasty) is leading the charge.
Changing Faces â Stroke You Up
Stroke him up when you put this on!
Ciara â Promise
Promise is one of those songs your can lip sing and dance to while your man watching how sexy (or silly) you look. If you end up coming off as sexy or silly he will appreciate the effort.
Destiny child – t shirt
Adina Howard had t-shirt and panties but Destiny Child took it to a new level with just wearing their men’s t-shirt. There is something sexy about a woman telling her man what she is wearing. Maybe you should get on the phone right now and call you man.
Teedra Moses â I Adore YouÂ
Every man wants to be adored. If you adore your man tell him and if you cant get it out let Teedra say it for you.
TLC â Red Light Special
This song by one of the greatest female groups of all time would be perfect for a little private strip tease. It your moves ready.
Adina Howard â T-Shirt and Panties
What man doesn’t like his woman in t-shirt and panties? This is a perfect song for the perfect t-shirt and panty party just for your man.
Aaliyah â Rock The Boat
This is a feel good joint with a nice rhythm that is good for the beginning of a cater to your man night.