We often watch others go through their ups & downs in their relationships, and it looks so crazy until we are in the same situation. Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results. How about if the same thing is a person? Relationships are dynamic and complex…it is more complex than black and white. There are colors and layers to this relationship thing. Rihanna and Chris Brown have been through crazy "stuff" right before our eyes. Kanye and Kim seem to have their disagreements also. Beyonce and Jay-Z seem look like the super perfect couple, but no couple is perfect. Wiz and his boo thing Amber seem like they never fight. (Wiz is probably too high to fight.) We could talk about the Love & Hip Hop triangle with Mimi, Joseline and Stevie J, but regardless of how the relationship seems or looks people have problems in relationships…it is inevitable. How do you perceive proper relationship problems from break up problems? We are not going to judge, but we will try to help you point out twelve quick indicators that might mean you need to leave someone alone.
Staying together forever is beautiful and people need to push it to the limit, but sometimes people may end up hurting and damaging the other person in the process. Hopefully these indicators will help you prevent damage or doing the whole back and forth thing. Just because you love someone doesn't mean you have to be with them. Sometimes the best thing to do is to love them from afar.
Let us know some of your experiences and indicators. There may be someone that needs help to move on.
Who do you think needs to let it go?
A. Rihanna & Chris Brown
B. Mimi & Stevie J
C. Joseline & Stebie J
D. Rasheedah & Kirk
E. Lil Scrappy & Erica
F. Kanye & Kim