69 Sexy Slow Jams To Use If You Have ABSOLUTELY NO GAME (Male Edition)

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Well, this is the deal. I am going to tell you exactly how to get things right with the ladies or vice versa. It takes a great ambience, the right words, candles, roses and all that stuff. But we are not talking about those things… we are talking about setting the mood. We are at the home of R&B, Singersroom.com so for all those "RoomMates" (Singersroom readers) that want the right songs to play here we go. People are always arguing who are the best R&B artists. Being the greatest singer-songwriter is fantastic, but if you can’t help to aid in a bump and grind session you might lose a couple points. All the greats had amazing sexy slow jams that just made you want to "Turn Off The Light" and get some "Sexual Healing." These slow jams brought you closer, it made you "Adore" and it made you want to be a lover. Before we share the top secret list of sexy slow jams for those that lack the game, here are some criteria for a great sexy slow jam.

Seductive Lyrics – The lyrics have to speak to you. You shouldn't have to say a word. All of these songs speak and give you the opportunity to just feel and be felt.

Mood Maker – The music not only has to have amazing lyrics that explain exactly how you feel or what you want to do, but it should set the mood. There are classic slow jams that just give you that mood and put you in a specific space.

Timeless – The song should be something that could be played now and for the next thirty years. We are still enjoying the smooth grooves of Teddy, Marvin, Smoky, Eddie Kendricks and The Whispers. It has to be something that a cougar and a young tenderoni can enjoy and feel. It is all about a universal feeling.

Putting slow jams in an order would be ridiculous so we just are going to mix it up and give you the best.

Regardless of the occasion, these songs are a guaranteed way to get that special someone in the mood. This list is a testament to the power of music and how it can make you feel no matter where you are or what you are doing. Just make sure you don’t mess it up by saying too much or making the wrong moves.

Good luck!!! (Thank/hate me Twitter @deyior/ Instagram @deyiorshomme later lol)

There are probably some songs that you may have found useful. Please share your sexy slow jams with us in the comment box.

Stay tuned for the female version of the list coming soon.

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Usher - Can U Handle It?

Usher – Can U Handle It?

Producer: Robin Thicke & Pro J
Album: Confessions

Can U Handle It? – Most of the time the ladies can’t handle this song. It is seductive and speaks for you if you lack the gift of gab. “Now that you’re here I have something to say I think”

Trey Songz - Jupiter Love

Trey Songz – Jupiter Love

Album: Ready
Producer: Troy Taylor & John “SK” McGee

“Jupiter Love” – If you claim to be a true Trey fan and you don’t know this song please go to your nearest bridge or building and jump. This is an introduction to the bed. (Thank you Trey.) “Oh …. how I love being inside your love. Your body is talking and I loving what she says.”

The Weeknd - What You Need

The Weeknd – What You Need

Album: House of Balloons
Producer: Doc McKinney & Illangelo

What You Need – This is slow and just right for a night of ecstasy(literally lol). This is a perfect song to whisper those fantasies in her ear. “He’s what you want. He’s what you want. I’m what you need.”

The Dream - Falsetto

The Dream – Falsetto

Album: Love Hate
Producer: Christopher Stewart & , Terius Nash

Falsetto – Ohhh, this song is sexy. If you can get her to dance for you this is the perfect song. Nice and slow. “She’s talking dirty all up in my ear and I am about to put that dog all up on her kitty cat.”

Isley Brothers - Between The Sheets

Isley Brothers – Between The Sheets

Album: Between the Sheets
Producer: Ronald Isley, Rudolph Isley

Between The Sheets – This is a classic and if you can’t get into the mood with this I’d really think you should just stop. This song is for all ages and any situation. If you have a beautiful cougar it is the perfect song to bridge the age gap. “Hey girl there is no mystery as far as I can see. I want to keep you here next to me in our love in between the sheets. I feel your love surrounding me.”

The Deele - Two Occasions

The Deele – Two Occasions

Album: Eyes of a Stranger
Producer: Kenneth “Babyface” Edmonds, Antonio “L.A.” Reid
Two Occasions – Before Babyface went solo, he rocked out with The Delle and “Two Occasions” was and will always be that joint. This may not be just about the physical act but it let’s that special person know how much you think of them. Sometimes you just have to show your appreciation for that person. You can rack up major points with this song.

Teddy Pendergrass - Turn Off The Light

Teddy Pendergrass – Turn Off The Light

Album: Teddy

Turn Off The Light – If you want an artist to tell your significant other exactly what to do and how to do it, Teddy is the right guy and “Turn Off The Light” is the right song. “Turn off the light and lite a candle!”

Tank - My Freak

Tank – My Freak

Album: Force of Nature
Producer: Caviar & Overdose

My Freak – Everybody needs a freak and it seems Tank can find the freak in any woman with this song. “You are a freak and I know!”

Silk - Meeting In My Bedroom

Silk – Meeting In My Bedroom

Album: Tonight
Producer: Darrell “Delite” Allamby, Lincoln Browder

Their music is just so juicy. It oozes sexy through every lyric and sound. They harmonize so beautifully. “There is a meeting in my bedroom so girl don’t be late!”

Silk - Freak You

Silk – Freak You

Album: Lose Control
Producer:Keith Sweat/Roy Murray

Silk can give you that intense feeling that just makes you get freaky. Silk is a group that is unapologetic about getting their fans in the mood. Caution, this is a freaky one. (And don’t for get the whipped cream.) “Let me lick you up and down until you say stop.”

Zapp & Roger - I Want To Be Your Man

Zapp & Roger – I Want To Be Your Man

Zapp & Roger used the auto tune like pros. It is honest and it let’s that lady know what you want to be … her man. “Hey lady let me tell you why I can’t live my life without you.”

R. Kelly - Whole Lotta Kisses

R. Kelly – Whole Lotta Kisses

Album: Untitled
Producer: R. Kelly

This is excellent for foreplay. Turn it up and get your kissing on. It is not a uber popular R. Kelly song so it might excite the curiosity of your lady friend. “Tonight you are my master and I will be your slave.”

Tyrese - Signs of Love Makin

Tyrese – Signs of Love Makin

Album: I Wanna Go There

If you are a fan of horoscopes and signs this is the song for you. Tyrese goes through the pros of various signs in such a sexy way. “I met a Scopio, she had no limit to where she would go.”

R. Kelly -Sex Me

R. Kelly -Sex Me

Album: 12 Play

In 1993, R. Kelly gave us exactly what we needed. It wasn’t about talking it was all about physically getting closer. This is if you are feeling freaky in the night. “I feel so freaky tonight and I need to make you feel alright.”

R. Kelly - Seems Like Your Ready

R. Kelly – Seems Like Your Ready

Album: 12 Play

If you have a friend that is on the edge and you may want to let her know that you want to get it on this might be the song. “Temperature rising and your body is yearning.”

R. Kelly - Pregnant

R. Kelly – Pregnant

Album: Untitled
Producer: R. Kelly, Berris Bolton & DeWayne Swan

Y’all think you are going to have all this XXX and no one gets pregnant … come on? R. Kelly got one for you with “Pregnant”. He and many other men won’t mind getting a lady they are digging pregnant. (Make sure to practice safe sex. We have enough dead beat dads running around these clubs … for real!) “Girl you want to make you get pregnant … knock you up.”

R. Kelly - The Greatest Sex

R. Kelly – The Greatest Sex

Album: TP-2.com
Producer: R. Kelly

Don’t just play this for anyone. It better be the greatest or at least close to it. “Baby your love stays constantly on my mind. It is the greatest sex I have ever had.”

Dwele - Weekend Love

Dwele – Weekend Love

Album:Some Kinda…
Producer: Dwele

If you are that sophisticated thinking type of love maker you might enjoy Dwele and “Weekend Love”. (Nice guy love making) “After all this time you’re still fine.”

R. Kelly - Bump N Grind

R. Kelly – Bump N Grind

Album: 12 Play
Producer: R. Kelly

Yes! This is a true classic in regards to love making music. If you don’t see nothing wrong with a little bump and grind put this track on. “My minds telling me no but my body is telling me yes.”

Robin Thicke – Sex Therapy

Robin Thicke – Sex Therapy

Album: Sex Therapy

This joint is soft and very easy to listening to. It is therapeutic. “Just let me love you/ Lay right here I’ll be your fantasy/Give you sex therapy, give you sex therapy.”

Donell Jones - No Interruptions

Donell Jones – No Interruptions

Album: My Heart
Producer: Donell Jones

Donnell Jones has songs for days. This is another song that gets straight to the point. “You ain’t leaving to the next day. There is going to be nonstop loving all day.”

Ready For The World - Love You Down

Ready For The World – Love You Down

Album:Long Time Coming
Producer: Gary Spaniola

This song has been remixed over and over but there is nothing like the slow, soft joint by Ready For The World. “Let me love you down even if it takes all night.”

Marques Houston - Naked

Marques Houston – Naked

Album: Naked
Producer: The Underdogs

Mr. Houston delivers a yummy dose of sensuality with this track. So go ahead and get naked… now! “Let your panties hit the floor and let your body steal the show. It seems like you’re ready. See you naked … butt naked.”

Miguel - Pussy Is Mine

Miguel – Pussy Is Mine

Album: Kaleidoscope Dream
Producer: Miguel

Some women like it rough and some like a man to be confident and take control. If this is the case this is the perfect song for the occasion. No point in pu$$y footing around the situation. Sometimes you just have to tell the lady what it is. “Tell me that the pu$$y is mine!”

Tony! Toni! Toné! - Anniversary

Tony! Toni! Ton̩! РAnniversary

Album: Sons of Soul
Producer: Tony! Toni! Toné!

It doesn’t have to be your anniversary for you to throw this track on. It works for any occasion. “It’s our anniversary. Happy anniversary.”

Raheem DeVaughn - Single

Raheem DeVaughn – Single

If your single and ready to mingle put this on. It is an ode to that Marvin and Barry White type of love session. (Check out the video.) “Got to get that foreplay going!”

Profyle - Damn

Profyle – Damn

Album: Nothin’ but Drama

“Damn” is all about those moves and sounds we all love in the bedroom. “Make you want to say ohh damn”

Bobby V - Hammer time

Bobby V – Hammer time

Mixtape: Vitamin V Bobby V. is doing the hammer but it doesn’t have anything to do with the MC from the Bay. This song has a vibe for an intimate aggressive session. It is also a low key joint that your friend may not have heard. You can’t with this. “She knows what I like. Shorty is prepared the hammer time time. ”

Pleasure P - Under

Pleasure P – Under

Album: The Introduction of Marcus Cooper
Producer: Tank

We haven’t heard much from Pleasure P in a while but it doesn’t mean that his joints don’t help us get our pleasure on. “Baby if I drain tonight it’s worth it for you/I don’t need no rescue.”

Prince - Adore

Prince – Adore

Album: Sign “O” the Times
Producer: Prince

Could Prince be any more perfect on a track. You have to safe this track for someone you are really digging. This is specific for someone you adore with all your heart. “From the first moment I saw you I knew you were the one. Telling you how fine you looked.”

Ne-Yo - Mirror

Ne-Yo – Mirror

Album: In My Own Words
Producer: Shea Taylor

The love making in front of the mirror is exciting for some reason. Ne-Yo made sure to highlight this. Why not? (Get a huge mirror at Ikea or some place.) “I like it when you make it move fast. We look so good together … in the mirror.”

Miguel - Teach Me

Miguel – Teach Me

Album: All I Want Is You
Producer: State Of Emergency

There is nothing sexier than teaching your lover how to do something naughty. “Teach Me” is that opportunity. There is something really “Princey” about this track. This is always a great pick. “I just want to be wherever you are.”

Maxwell - Bad Habits

Maxwell – Bad Habits

Album: BLACKsummers’night
Producer: MUSZE, Hod David

Everyone has a couple bad habits. It’s just that Maxwell makes them sound so good. “I feel you from the floor to the ceiling. We get together and it’s an overdose.”

Marvin Gaye - Sexual Healing (Extended Version)

Marvin Gaye – Sexual Healing (Extended Version)

Producer: Marvin Gaye
Album: Midnight Love

Marvin Gaye set the standard at his time and still works wonders because he had that feeling that is felt in the bones. It’s sooo smooth. “Ohh, baby let’s get down tonight! Baby … baby!”

Marvin Gaye - Let's Get It On

Marvin Gaye – Let’s Get It On

Album: Let’s Get It On
Producer: Marvin Gaye, Ed Townsend

Once again Marvin sets the mood on the list. This is a timeless joint that people can’t help but get into. “We are all sensitive people with so much to give.”

Miguel - Girl With the Tattoo Enter.Lewd

Miguel – Girl With the Tattoo Enter.Lewd

Album: All I Want Is You

This joint is for that chick with the delicious tattoo you just want to taste. It is Miguel’s voice that makes the difference. “Those innocent eyes./The girl with the tattoo…”

Maxwell - A Women's Work

Maxwell – A Women’s Work

Album: MTV Unplugged

The ladies love this song because it’s all about them and what they do. Maxwell’s angelic voice lays so perfectly over the instrumentation. As soon as this song starts it just gives you a calming feeling. This amazing song will let the ladies know you have a sensitive side. “Give me your hand. I should be crying but I just can’t let it show.”

Lloyd - Valentine

Lloyd – Valentine

Album: Street Love
Producer: Wally Morris

This song is all about a laid back seduction that is uncontrollable. It’s all about trying to figure out if this person is the one. “Could this be true love that I have found?”

Trey Songz - Panty Droppa

Trey Songz – Panty Droppa

Album: Ready
Producer: Troy Taylor, Patrick Hayes

This intro is a perfect way to start a slow jam CD, panty dropper music session or just to get people in to the sexiest frame of mind. “I want to make love to you!

Jodeci - Freek'n You

Jodeci – Freek’n You

Album: Diary of a Mad Band

The words pretty much speak for itself. The auto-tune is just right and gives you the right amount of freakiness. You got to love it! “Every time I close my eyes./ I wake up so hornyyyy!”

Luke James - Make Love To Me

Luke James – Make Love To Me

Album: Made to Love

Luke James voice is amazing and powerful. This is the perfect command. (You might have to test the waters before you start making these demands.) “Now I got your body doing things you were not aware you could do.”

LSG - My Body

LSG – My Body

Album: Levert.Sweat.Gill
Producer: Darrell “Delite” Allamby

This joint is for the mature lover in you. This song from this super group gives you the best elements of a slow jam. Johnny Gil, Gerald Levert and Keith Sweat do not disappoint. “All over your body baby.”

Jon B. - They Don't Know

Jon B. – They Don’t Know

Album: Cool Relax
Producer: Tim & Bob

If you want to slow it down Jon B is the man. His lyrics are on point and always tell great stories. It is something you can sing along to while staying real cool. (This is perfect for that secret lover.)”You should know you’re my angel/Nothing’s gonna make you fall from heaven.”

Joe - All The Things (Your Man Won't Do)

Joe – All The Things (Your Man Won’t Do)

Album: All That I Am
Producer: Joe, Joshua P. Thompson

This is a jam that is sexy but aggressive enough to get the point across. “I’ll give the world to make you mine.”

Jodeci - Feenin

Jodeci – Feenin

Album:Diary of a Mad Band
Producer: DeVante Swing

Jodeci were all about bringing all the action to the bed and they were not shy about it. “Feenin” is a plead to take everything and just make love. “Take my money, my house and my car. For one hit of you … you can have it all.”

Jamie Foxx - Three Letter Word

Jamie Foxx – Three Letter Word

You probably can guess what the three letters are but this song by Jamie will just get you in the mood. There is nothing funny about this joint… its all business. “Every day, every night, every hour I am thinking about it.”

J Holiday - Bed

J Holiday – Bed

Album: Back of My Lac’
Producer: The-Dream & Los Da Mystro

The beat on “Bed” makes you get into that rhythm that you would use in the bed. If you can get your hips moving to the beat you might have a good night. It is also a great transitional song you can use to get into some of the other sexy slow jams. “Change into that Victoria secret thing that I like.”

Jesse Boykins III - Victoria

Jesse Boykins III – Victoria

Album:The Beauty Created
Producer:Marion Ross III & Jesse Boykins III

You may or may not be familiar with Jesse Boykins III. However, this cat creates some great music to get that dopamine flowing in your body. “Victoria” is a simple interlude but it will set the tone. It’s all about the vibe. “Victoria … Victoria I’ll do anything. Tell me what I got to do!”

Jeremih - Rated R

Jeremih – Rated R

Album: Late Nights with Jeremih

If you are not a big Jeremih fan take a listen to his mixtape “Late Nights”. It might change your mind. It is all about the traditional slow jams. “Rated R” gives you that bump and grind feeling with a touch of a wet dream. “Tell me how I can be hating if I can give you something better.”

Isley Brothers - Footsteps In The Dark

Isley Brothers – Footsteps In The Dark

Isley Brothers are legend in love making music. I wonder how many babies they were responsible for making? This is a great song because it is sexy and familiar. “Are we really sure?/ Can the love that lasted so long still endure.”

Jamie Foxx - Storm

Jamie Foxx – Storm

Album: Unpredictable

If you want to get it wet this is just the song you need. Play this if you are waiting for you’re boo to get home. “I want it soakin’ wet all over the bed/I want the rain to come.”

Jaiden The Cure - Mood Music

Jaiden The Cure – Mood Music

This cat can sing and he does well to set that mood right with this song. It is all about getting into that lady’s mind and you might need this joint for that “Let me just the mood. Let me get up in your head before I get up in your legs.”

Jagged Edge - Slow Motion

Jagged Edge – Slow Motion

Album: A Jagged Era If you need to slow things down you have your Jagged Edge guys to do that. “If you want it I got it./Better believe I am not leaving home without it.”

Chris Brown - Take You Down

Chris Brown – Take You Down


It’s all about laying down and making each other feel so good. Chris once again makes that clear. “I want to take you down/I really want to take you down.”

Isley Brothers - Between the Sheets

Isley Brothers – Between the Sheets

Album: Between the Sheets
Producer: Ronald Isley, Rudolph Isley

This is a classic and if you can’t get into the mood with this I really think you should just stop. This song is for all ages and any situation. “Hey girl there is no mystery as far as I can see. I want to keep you here next to me. in our love in between the sheets. I feel your love surrounding me.”

Guy - Let's Chill

Guy – Let’s Chill

Album: The Future

This is a great song that may get you in the mood but is not at all forceful. This is a song to get both parties comfortable. “Let’s chill… baby! From the first time I saw your face./ Girl you know I had to have you.”

Chris Brown - Sex

Chris Brown – Sex

The title says it all… enough said. lol “How deep do you want me to go. Do you want me to speed it up or take it slow?”

Ginuwine - So Anxious

Ginuwine – So Anxious

Album: 100% Ginuwine

Ginuwine has always catered to the ladies. This song speaks to our inability to control ourselves before getting closer. “Only bubble baths and back rubs/ I hope you hit me back cause I’m so anxious.”

Force MDs - Tender Love

Force MDs – Tender Love

Album: Chillin Who doesn’t want a tender love to surrender to? This is a song that gets to those feelings that we sometimes hide. (You might have to cry to this one.) “Tender Love /Love so tender /holding me close to you /baby I surrender.”

Dru Hill - Tell Me

Dru Hill – Tell Me

Album: Dru Hill
Producer: Stanley Brown, Benjamin Love

They can sing their butts off and they do not fail with this song. This song works because it is all about catering to that special person. “Tell me what you want. Tell me what you need. Tell me if it ain’t good enough for you babe. ”

D'Angelo - Untitled (How Does It Feel)

D’Angelo – Untitled (How Does It Feel)

Album: Voodoo
Producer: D’Angelo, Raphael Saadiq

If your body is not right just leave this one alone because she is going to be thinking about D’Angelo’s body in the video the whole time. (It might be counterproductive.) “How does it feel!”

Chris Brown - No Bullshit

Chris Brown – No Bullshit

Album: In My Zone Mixtape

Chris just wants us to get pass all the foolishness and get straight to the business. “We can do it all night. Don’t you be on that bullshit.”

Trey Songz - Neighbors Know My Name

Trey Songz – Neighbors Know My Name

Album: Ready

If you want your neighbors to know the damage you can do just put this song and go to work. “The sky is the limit. I don’t want to end it.”

Bobby Brown - Rock Wit'cha (Live)

Bobby Brown – Rock Wit’cha (Live)

Album: Don’t Be Cruel
Producer: Babyface

People can say what they want to say about Bobby Brown but he made some amazing slow jams. Rock Wit’cha is one of his best because how open he is about his feelings. (Was he singing to Whitney?)”Now that you are here with me baby let’s do it right.”

Blackstreet - Deep

Blackstreet – Deep

Album: Level II
Producer: Teddy Riley

This definitely would have been on UNCUT back in the day on BET. How can you be mad at Teddy Riley and friends? “Let me go deep, deep, deep, deep.”

Babyface - Whip Appeal

Babyface – Whip Appeal

Album: Tender Lover
Producer: Babyface and L.A. Reid

I know that I am not the only one that has been affected by that whip appeal. It has happened to the best of us. If that person has that affect on you might as well come clean and let them know. You might need some silk sheets for this relaxed joint. “No one does it like me and no one but you have that whip appeal on me. Whatever you want it’s alright with me.”

Avant - Making Good Love

Avant – Making Good Love

Album: Ectasy

Avant has some amazing love making songs. This is a great one for a slow and steady night of love making. “When we make love all night/making sweet love.”

Andre 3000 - Prototype

Andre 3000 – Prototype

Album: Speakerboxxx/The Love Below
Producer: André 3000

This is not your traditional R&B sexy slow jam but it’s all about being in love again. You can’t be mad at that. “I hope that you’re the one./ If not you are the prototype.”

112 - Anywhere

112 – Anywhere

Album: Room 112
Producer: Daron Jones

If you want to have a nice “session” anywhere this is the joint for you. 112 rocked the airwaves with Puff and Notorious BIG but it was their slow jams that got the attention of the ladies. Try to get the edition without Lil Zane, he might mess that whole R&B vibe up. “We can make love in the bedroom. We can do it anywhere. In the showers both our bodies dripping wet.”

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