LOSER is a strong word. However, some guys deserve the title. Men are always saying that women are not giving them a chance but sometimes there are reasons that may prevent men from getting the ladies of their chose. Here are a couple things that might put you in the loser category.
1. Bad Credit â Your credit score indicates the likeliness for you to pay off creditors. However, a credit score also represents so much more to our society and also to women seeking a suitable man. A man with a great credit score to a woman represents someone who is responsibility, stable and has the ability to be consistent. Will you skip out and not pay your child support? Will you be able to make sure the mortgage is paid on time? And probably the most important ⦠do you have enough credit for her to go on those much needed shopping sprees when you do something wrong or when she just has the urge to shop? If you don’t have the right answers to these questions because of bad credit then we might have to throw you in the loser category. Sorry!
2. Financial Problems â Ladies say they will stick by a man in financial trouble but is it for a period of time or forever? However, do you blame the women leaving a man with constant financial problems? Hell no because creating opportunity for oneself is a characteristic that is attractive. If you cannot create financial opportunity how can you support a family? (If you can’t support a family then you shouldn’t be expecting sexâ¦gentlemen!) Go getters usually get their money and ladies because they have the ability to make nothing out of something. I am not supporting the traditional gold-digger. However, a man without ambition and a desire to be successful is a man that should not be trusted. So I say leave those bums living in their mother’s house and go get a man that works hard, pays his bills and will take care of home ladies. They might not all be basketball players or rappers but you still have regular guys taking care of business.(Leave that 0 and get with a hero! lol)
3. Old Car â An old or ugly car just lowers your sexy value. It is almost subconscious. Scenario: When you roll up at a nice banquet with you and your lady dressed to kill you don’t want to jump out of a ’94 Camry with faded paint. This is a perfect time for a nice sports car. (Camrys are great cars and they are reliable.) People just look better when they are in nice cars. Imagine a king back in the day on a donkey or a pharaoh on an old chariot? Come on son! Your ride has to be right or you might get leftâ¦message!
4. Live With your Mother â It would be so honorable to take care of your mother and have her living with you. In many cultures it is exceptable to live with your family for a long period of time. However, I am speaking to the losers out there living for free and not being independent. We are speaking to those mama’s boys that never grew up. Get off that couch and go do something. Not being able to leave the nest and take care of business qualifies you as a loserâ¦better yet a scrub. Thank you TLC for the song.
5. Short Stick Man â Some people try to sugar coat the situation by saying stupid things like “its not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean.” That is absolute crap that is recited by a) women that are in love with men with little wankers or b) men that have little wankers. You having a little stick might put you in the loser category. It sounds harsh but it’s true. However, there are women that will deal with this dilemma.
Warning: Guys with little wankers beware of the angry ex-girlfriend because they will go out their way to describe how small your swammy is every chance they get. And guess what it gets smaller every time they tell someone a story about it.
What in the world is that thing
Do you need some Tweezers to put that little thing away
That has got to be the smallest stick I have ever seen…In my whole life
Get outta here
Innie Wennie tinny wenny shriveled little short stick man(x2)
Dont want no short stick man(x4)
Innie Wennie tinny wennie shriveled little short stick man(x2)
Uhhh uhuhuhuh uhhh
Isnt that cute an extra belly button
You need to put you pants back on honey”
Gillette – Don’t Want No Short Dick Man
—— By: Doc
Have you ever met someone who just can’t seem to get it right? They’re always messing up and causing trouble, leaving a trail of destruction behind them. But what are the traits that make someone a “big loser?” If this is something you’ve wondered about, then read on! In this article we’ll explore five things that make a man a big loser according to society’s standards. From being overly reliant on others to having poor communication skills, these traits can have an immense impact in one’s life. So if you want to know how not to be a big loser, take note of the lessons outlined here!
Characteristics Of A Losing Attitude
No one wants to be labeled a loser, but there are certain traits and behaviors that can make a man seem like one. These characteristics of a losing attitude often come down to the way in which someone perceives themselves and their abilities. A big loser is usually someone who lacks self-confidence, has an unhealthy sense of entitlement, and displays bad habits.
Low self-esteem is a common trait among losers. Someone with low confidence may not believe they have what it takes to succeed or reach their goals. They don’t think highly of their own ideas and talents, so they might talk themselves out of taking risks or challenging themselves. This lack of faith in oneself can lead to feelings of inadequacy and even depression.
Entitlement issues also plague many big losers. People who feel entitled expect things to be given to them without having done anything for it; this could range from expecting special treatment at work or getting away with poor behavior because “they deserve it”. Not only does this attitude damage relationships, it also leads people into situations where they’re not prepared or equipped to handle the consequences of their actions.
Bad habits can quickly turn someone into a loser as well. Staying up late playing video games instead of studying for exams, drinking excessively on nights out, being careless with money – these are all examples of activities that will stunt personal growth and prevent success in life if indulged in too frequently. It’s important to recognize when something isn’t serving your best interests before it gets out of hand and sabotages any chance you had for success.
Negative Habits And Behaviors
In addition to the characteristics of a losing attitude, there are also certain negative habits and behaviors that can make someone seem like a loser. Most often these involve bad choices or actions that have short-term rewards but long-term consequences. Bad communication skills, procrastination, reckless spending – all of these lead to situations where one is unable to reach their goals and disappoints those around them.
It’s important for people who find themselves in this situation to recognize it early on and take steps to correct their behavior before they become too entrenched in it. Developing healthier routines and making better decisions can pay off big time in the long run when done consistently over time. Having accountability partners helps as well; talking with friends or family members about your goals and plans can motivate you stay on track and be more successful.
Making positive changes doesn’t happen overnight, but if someone has an honest desire to improve their life then steady progress is possible. Staying away from activities or environments that foster unhealthy habits will help immensely, as will creating achievable goals that focus on personal growth rather than instant gratification. With enough hard work and dedication anyone can break free from the cycle of being a big loser and start becoming the person they want to be.
Conclusion
The bottom line is, if you want to be successful in life, it’s important to recognize and avoid the behavior of a big loser. Having an attitude that’s defeatist or resentful will never get you anywhere. You also have to be aware of your habits and behaviors that can lead you down a path of failure. It’s essential to stay positive and open-minded, so you don’t miss out on opportunities for growth and success.
I believe anyone can turn their life around when they identify what makes them a loser and take steps to reverse these patterns. With dedication and hard work, people can make meaningful changes in their lives and become winners instead of losers. If we all focus on our strengths rather than our weaknesses, there’s no limit to how far we can go!
Ultimately, being a winner isn’t about luck or chance – it requires self-awareness and determination. When someone takes the time to reflect on themselves honestly and understand what type of person they want to be, they create more room for personal growth while avoiding many pitfalls along the way. All of us deserve the chance at happiness; let’s do whatever it takes to reach our goals and live up to our potential!
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