As young girls, we are taught to marry up. We are taught to marry a man who is capable of providing for us and our children. Gold digging, on the other hand, takes this principle to a whole new level. Gold digging has nothing to do with love but everything to do with money. It used to be shameful when a woman was branded a gold digger by her peers. Men would often run the other way when they spotted a gold digger. Recently though, actress Lisa Raye McCoy has taken the title with pride and even kicked it up a notch and labeled herself a “Platinum Digger”. Hey, if she’s proud of that then more power to her. Although from the latest developments of her still-pending divorce (financials are still being worked out), she may have to re-think her title.
One of the first rules of being a true gold digger is to always do your research. Apparently, Ms. McCoy did not do so before she married the Prime Minister of Turks & Caicos, Michael Missick. In a strange turn of events as described by her attorney, the former Prime Minister may now even be entitled to spousal support from McCoy. Say what, the gold digger has to pay up? Seems that none of Missick’s assets is actually in his name, and therefore it would appear that he has nothing, broke, nada! Even the Bentley he “bought” for McCoy turned out to be leased and she is now on the hook for the payments. This dude played the game so smooth and clean that you can’t even get mad at him. Let’s not even talk about what has happened in that whole Anna Nicole Smith debacle. In short, she spent all of that time cozying up to 89 year old J. Howard Marshall, who himself admitted that he had one foot in the grave and the other on a banana peel, to end up literally going to her grave fighting for her rights to his money. Her estate’s latest attempt at getting Marshall’s money has been denied by the court. And is Tomi Rae Brown, the self-proclaimed widow of the late James Brown even worth mentioning? I didn’t think so either.
So, what have we learned about gold digging? One, it’s better to get your Rick Ross on and get your own money. Two, do your research because even though he is the Prime Minister of an island doesn’t mean he owns it. Lastly, consult with Kim Porter and Kimora Lee (Simmons) Hounsou before you go at the digging alone. Those two know the game, how to play it, and how to come out on top of it! Don’t hate the player, hate the game! In the meantime, Lisa Raye’s gold digger card has been temporarily suspended.
—— By: Tiffany Haggerty
When it comes to gold-digging, there is a lot of confusion and misunderstanding about what it really means. It’s often seen as something negative – an act of financial exploitation or the pursuit of money at any cost. But while some may see it as wrong, there are times when gold-digging backfires in unexpected ways. In this article, we’ll explore how gold-digging can turn against its perpetrator and why sometimes it pays off to be honest with yourself first and foremost.
The concept of gold-digging has been around since the Middle Ages – many people have tried (and failed) to get rich quick by taking advantage of someone else’s wealth. And while most people assume that only women are guilty of such schemes, there are plenty of men who engage in gold-digging too. Whether they’re trying to con their way into a wealthy inheritance or just looking for a sugar daddy, these individuals put themselves at risk for potentially disastrous consequences if their plans don’t pan out.
Though success stories do exist where someone managed to make a fortune through sneaky manipulation and deception, more often than not those same tactics lead to failure rather than riches. From lawsuits over broken contracts to damning public exposure, the dangers of engaging in such activities should never be underestimated – especially when things go south and you find yourself caught up in a web of lies with no escape route in sight! So read on to learn more about when the gold-digging backfires!
Warning Signs Of A Gold-Digger
It’s not difficult to spot a gold-digger. They are often more interested in the financial status of their potential mate than anything else. Unfortunately, it can be tricky for someone being targeted by a gold-digger to realize what’s happening until it is too late. That’s why it is important to look out for some warning signs that could indicate that you’re dealing with a gold-digger.
The first sign of a gold-digger may be an insistence on expensive dates and gifts. A person who only sees value in material items isn’t likely looking for true love; they’re just after your money. If your partner insists on going to expensive restaurants or buying luxury items, take caution before getting too involved.
Another telltale sign of a gold-digger is how they behave when money is tight or absent altogether. A genuine relationship involves two people supporting each other through good times and bad, but if all your partner does is complain about not having enough money or try to pressure you into giving them yours, then this should raise alarm bells. It’s time to reevaluate the relationship if these behaviors seem more like trying to get something from you rather than working together as equals through tough situations.
No one deserves to be taken advantage of financially, so it pays to stay vigilant against any red flags that come up during dating. With foresight and vigilance, hopefully no one will fall victim to being duped by a gold digger ever again!
Consequences Of Dating A Gold-Digger
Unfortunately, when it comes to gold-diggers, some people don’t recognize the signs until it’s too late. If you find yourself in a relationship with a gold-digger, there can be serious consequences that go beyond just financial losses.
For instance, if your partner is only interested in what they can get out of you financially, this could lead to severe emotional distress and feelings of being used or taken advantage of. In addition, any money given away may never be seen again as they will likely not contribute anything back into the relationship. The lack of reciprocity causes resentment and damage to trust between both parties involved.
Furthermore, if things end badly due to their manipulative tactics and dishonesty, it could affect future relationships by making someone more guarded and cynical about finding love. As such, it pays off to stay on guard against any red flags that might indicate an ulterior motive for getting close – because dating a gold digger can have long lasting negative effects on one’s well-being and outlook on romance.
Conclusion
No one wants to be taken advantage of and no one should, especially in personal relationships. Being aware of the warning signs of a gold-digger is key to avoiding such a situation from arising. Unfortunately, sometimes it’s too late before we realize what we’ve gotten ourselves into.
The consequences of dating a gold-digger can range from financial loss to emotional harm. It’s important for me to remember that my worth isn’t determined by how much money I have or don’t have and that there are people out there who will accept me for who I am without expecting anything else in return.
At the end of the day, it’s up to us as individuals to protect our own interests and make sure we’re not getting involved in potentially dangerous situations. Taking time to really get to know someone before committing yourself is always helpful so you can better identify whether they are truly interested in you or just after your wallet!
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