by While Cocktail may have won Ray J’s “heart” on the VH1 reality series ‘For the Love of Ray J’, MTV reality star Tila Tequila says she and Ray J have been an item for months ! “Yes, we’ve been dating for a while but didn’t want the media to find out cuz it’s nobody’s business,” Tequila wrote on her Myspace blog recently. According to the former MTV star she is only coming forward with the news because of rumors that suggested relationships with Tyrese and Diddy or maybe it was the fact that Ray J was on television declaring love all up and through the VH1 mansion… Regardless of what anybody says, Tequila says “My real boyfriend is Ray J” and based upon her post it doesn’t look like that will change anytime soon: “No man has made me feel so loved and so happy in such a long time. We really do love each other and I am so happy to have FINALLY met someone who treats me with respect and love.” Tila Tequila first garnered attention through her stint with Playboy as both a cyber girl of the week and featured model. It was however, Tequila’s MTV ‘love search’ titled “A Shot at Love with Tila Tequila” that earned the Singapore born personality mainstream attention. The series, after premiering October of 2007, lasted two seasons before coming to a close last July. Tequila also released a book last year titled “Hooking Up With Tequila: A Guide to Love, Fame, Happiness, Success and Being the Life of the Party”. Update: Ray J seems to be in love too… according to his twitter account. He writes (to Tequila) “love u more!!!! you my future wifey” and later writes to Cocktail “tell your mom and dad I said whats up”…
