The one thing I actually love about getting older are the patterns in life that finally hit you as just that-patterns. And no matter what anyone freaking says, patterns give you permission to analyze. Why? Simply because they’re not rooted in luck or circumstance, just one sturdy-ass sequence (and if you’re not feeling that, holler at the millions of sociologists who get cut checks just for studying patterns).
Okay anywaysâ¦
R&B. Men. Men who don’t appreciate R&B. I’m going to make this quick.
There’s this thing called hyper-masculinity that I really can’t stand so I try my best to dodge it. Really because everything in excess has detrimental side effects. Everything. I can only deal with hyper-femininity in measured doses as well. Anyways! A dude who appreciates R&B (and not just to “set the mood”) is usually one who’s in touch with his feminine side. (Sidebar! Guys that get uncomfortable with any mention of “feminine side”⦠I’m good on them too.) And dudes who are in tune with this emotive wing-just as women who are in tune with their masculine wing-tend to be more balanced human beings. Which is what we’re all striving to be. Or at least when you’re 25 and climbing, right?
Now I’m friends with a shit load of hyper-masculine dudes. Love a lot of them. But having them as boyfriends would be excessive. And guess what the one common trait 90% of them share is? They don’t eff with slow jams or Kanye’s emonstrous 808s & Heartbreak for a matter of fact.
All the above troubles me, but then I think about all this genre-bending music and I feel relieved. Shout out to de-conditioning Drizzy!
Now I know yall are probably like Trazy and another one of her wild stipulations, but I’d rather be picky with character rather than aesthetic⦠though my mother always did tell me to date a guy with an obvious flaw⦠but that’s another blog post.
Enjoy the dating world kids. —— By: Tracy of WWMD
R&B music has been around for decades, bringing us the most soulful and passionate sounds of love. Many people can relate to its lyrics about heartbreak, joy and pain; yet some men still don’t seem to appreciate it. As an R&B lover myself, I’m often left feeling iffy when dudes fail to recognize the beauty in this genre. What’s more, these same guys are usually quick to dismiss my favorite artists as unimportant or irrelevant – even though they have a lot to offer. In this article, I’ll explain why I’m not here for dudes who aren’t into R&B, and what makes me take pause whenever one of them shows up on my radar. So read on if you’ve ever felt like your appreciation for the genre isn’t being taken seriously enough!
History Of R&B Music
R&B music has a long and storied history, with its roots stretching back to the 1940s. In that era, musical styles such as jazz, gospel, blues and country were blended together to create a new genre of popular music. As it evolved over time, R&B incorporated elements from other genres like hip-hop and EDM until it became what we recognize today.
Throughout this evolution, R&B has been an important part of American culture; it’s been used in films, television shows and commercials for decades. However, despite its widespread popularity, there are still people who don’t appreciate or understand the value of R&B music. This is especially true among younger generations who may not have grown up listening to it as much as their parents did.
The fact remains that R&B is an art form with deep emotional resonance and a rich cultural heritage that deserves respect. There’s no denying the power of these songs—they can transport us back in time to our childhood memories or inspire us when we’re feeling down. For those reasons alone, everyone should take the time to really listen to some classic jams every now and then and learn about where this beloved genre came from.
Reasons To Celebrate The Genre
R&B music is something that should be celebrated and appreciated, not simply ignored. It’s a genre of music with a long history and its own unique sound. There are so many reasons to love R&B—it can make us feel nostalgic for our past or provide comfort in hard times. Plus, the lyrics often tackle difficult topics like racism, sexism and poverty, making it an important form of expression in our society today.
The melodies and rhythms found in R&B songs have been known to inspire people during moments of despair, while also providing joyous accompaniment to celebrations. Its influence on other genres has been profound; without early pioneers such as Ray Charles and Aretha Franklin, we wouldn’t have classic rock ‘n’ roll or hip-hop as we know it today.
We all owe it to ourselves to take the time to appreciate R&B music. From soulful ballads to upbeat dance tracks, this genre has something for everyone. Great art deserves recognition—so go ahead and give some old school jams a listen! You won’t regret it.
Conclusion
I’m not here to judge anyone who doesn’t have an appreciation for R&B music, but it’s something that I personally value deeply. This genre has been around for decades and continues to be an essential part of the music industry today. It speaks to my soul in ways nothing else can and provides comfort when life gets hard. For me, there is no other sound quite like it.
When I meet someone and discover they don’t appreciate this type of music, I find myself questioning their ability to understand emotion on a deeper level. While some may prefer top 40 hits or alternative rock tunes, for me it’s all about the power of R&B lyrics combined with soulful melodies – what more could you want?
To each their own as far as taste in music goes – while I might feel disappointed if someone isn’t a fan of R&B, that won’t stop me from appreciating them as people and forming meaningful relationships regardless. Music preferences are personal choices at the end of the day; however, those who show an appreciation for the artistry behind classic rhythm and blues will always hold a special place in my heart.
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