It can be extremely painful to deal with a break-up. We see it time and time again in Love & Hip Hop individuals coping with the new mister or misses. It is hard to just jump out of a relationship and deal with new evidence that the one you once had a relationship with has moved on and doesn’t love you like he or she once did. Those are the breaks and the truth hurts, but there are a couple things you can do to make sure that your heart is not broken time and time again, especially when you have an inconsiderate ex that might revel in seeing you hurt. Just remember that everything happens for a reason and the man upstairs might have something better in store.
It’s there loss!
Work on you – Don’t look for the best person, go out and work on being the best person. Many times people don’t take the time to reflect and correct the things that they need to work on. If you work on your mind, body and soul, it will give you confidence and help you to attract positive people and energy. Just move on and work on you â¦ PERIOD!
DJ Baby Drew
Be Positive – You have to know that there is something better out there for you and this is not the end of the road. There are billions of people in the world. You should be able to find someone new if you really, really want to.
Stevie J, Joseline Hernandez
Cut Off Ties – Get those squares out of your circle. Make sure to stay away from people that will give you an update on your ex. If your going to move forward you have to make sure you can be free from the thought of your ex. Mimi and many women that have a babies’ daddy have a problem breaking off ties. Yes, you have to keep that person in your child’s life. However, he/she does not have to be part of your life. Establish boundaries and rules to keep him away from you trying to move forward. Erica Dixon should think about staying away from certain people that might keep Ms. Shay Johnson close. We can see that they just don’t mix.
Stevie J, Mimi Faust
Kill Communication – Eliminate contact with significant other. Stop all texting, calling and accidentally bumping into him or her. You have to cut off all ties and be smart about avoiding places where he/she might frequent with the new person. You don’t want any drama. Mimi always finds herself talking to Stevie J about everything from Joseline to her new boos. How can you move forward if your always giving him the inside scoop on every detail of your life? Get it together!
Lil Scrappy, Erica Dixon
New Hobbies – Find a new hobby or get into an old one. This is a perfect way to stay busy and that will prevent you from having any issues with the ex or with their new significant other. Playing sports, painting or shopping might be some things that can keep you happy and focused on you. Don’t spend your time dwelling on who has taken your spot. Everyone from Chris Brown, Rihanna, Mimi, Shay and maybe even you need to find a new hobby as you get over your ex.