Live in a Way that Says “Hi Hater(s)!”
Use the experience as positive motivation instead of negative motivation (revenge). The best revenge is to live well. Do something positive to better your life or the lives of others. Set a goal, something that you’ve always wanted to do, and strive to achieve it. The energy put into a progressive action will reinforce in your mind that you’re ok, you’re making progress towards future happiness and success. Your hurtful past will slowly diminish as your focus shifts towards something you’re passionate about.