It’s raining, but the sun will come out for the glorious summer. It is now time to do some “UnCuffing” (relationship cleansing) and make room for a fun filled summer. So with that said, if things are not working with the mister or miss, you need to end on a good note with the help of artists like Mariah Carey and Tamia. If you would like to make this happen follow the directions:
1. Evaluate how you feel about the person before you make any rash decisions. Write it down. Maybe writing down the pros and cons of the relationship works.
2. Pick a perfect time. Please don’t pick a holiday, birthday or special time for this. You don’t want to scare the person for life.
3. Pick a perfect place. Let’s try to give the person a chance to deal with the news in an environment that is conducive to this serious situation..
4. Tell him or her how you feel. You can also write this down in a letter. If it is written please make sure to talk in person. Texting, emailing and/or calling is so impersonal. Make sure to let them down easy. You never want to burn bridges.
5. Pack your stuff and actually stay at your place. That place you call your apartment/house should now be used for you to live in. if you are not ready for a couple lonely nights with the pillow between your legs DON’T DO IT.
6. Spring Cleaning. Do some spring cleaning for your awesome summer party/BBQs
7. Get a new sexy wardrobe. You need those skin revealing outfits that will get the attention of all those admirers
8. Get your @$$ in that gym. Make sure you increase your work out regiment from your lame 1 or 2 day a week to at least 5 days a week. You have to understand you’re going to actually have to impress people for dates and its getting hot so people will see everything you’ve been hiding.
9. Don’t react and be strong. Some people don’t take break ups well . They might get emotional, yell, scream or throw things. Don’t be mad and make sure to be civil. Kanye West is a perfect example of people that can’t take rejection. He is still talking about Amber Rose. (Not that we blame him)
10. Give a constellation prize: If they can’t have you they can at least have a cool mixtape by Poo Bear entitled ‘#Beats2Breakup2‘ as well as the list below from our mini soundtrack.
Mini Break-Up Soundtrack
Carl Thomas – Emotional
Michel’le – No More Lies
Tamia – Stranger In My House
Mariah Carey – Always Be My Baby
R. Kelly – Feelin’ Single
Conclusion: Be brave and just know its out with the old and in with the new. It’s time to spring clean, but also get ride of those old relationships that are not going anywhere. Artists such as Carl Thomas and R. Kelly make break ups seem so cool. This will prep you for an amazing summer and set you up to find that special someone for the fall. By winter you may be comfortable and cozy with the man or woman of your dreams.
Ah, summertime: the sun is shining, days are longer and love seems to be in the air. But sometimes relationships don’t quite last until fall. If you’re looking for tips on how to break up with your significant other without causing too much drama or heartache, then look no further! We’ve got a comprehensive guide to uncuffing from someone you once loved this summer season that includes advice on how to end things amicably as well as a mini-breakup soundtrack full of songs that perfectly match your feelings. So if you’re ready to move on with grace and poise come summertime, let’s get started!
Maybe it was something unspoken between the two of you; perhaps one of you had already moved on before realizing it. Whatever the reason may be, deciding when and how to break up can feel like an overwhelming task – but there are ways to make sure both parties leave feeling respected and cared for. Here we’ll provide actionable steps for navigating through such difficult conversations while also offering words of encouragement along the way. You don’t need another person by your side all summer long; instead, focus on being comfortable in your own skin and taking care of yourself first and foremost!
Finally, what better way than music to express those raw emotions? In our mini breakup soundtrack below, listen closely for lyrics that encapsulate exactly how you might feel during these times. Whether it’s anger or sadness (or a mix of both), explore these tunes in order to release any lingering pain from the past relationship so you can enter into the next one confidently and fully present.
Strategies For Breaking Up
Breaking up with someone can be tough, and it’s important to take time to consider your decision before taking action. It’s never easy ending a relationship, but there are strategies that can help make the process more manageable.
The first step is to think about why you want to break up. Are there fundamental differences between you and your partner that have been causing tension? Perhaps one of you wants something different in terms of commitment or lifestyle– whatever the reason may be, it’s essential to identify what isn’t working for both parties. Once this has been identified, create a plan – decide when and how you’re going to discuss the breakup with your partner. Remember: communication is key! Even if things don’t go as planned, try not to get into an argument – remain calm and focus on expressing yourself clearly and honestly.
If possible, it might also be helpful to seek out support from trusted friends or family members who will listen without judgment while you talk through how you’re feeling. Doing so can provide much-needed perspective on the situation as well as emotional support during a difficult time. Ultimately, breaking up requires courage; it may take some strength and resilience to do what is best for both people involved in the long run.
Creating A Break Up Playlist
Having a break-up soundtrack can be an effective way to help you and your partner through the process of ending your relationship. Music has the power to evoke strong emotions and memories, so it’s important to choose songs that reflect how you both are feeling at this time in your life. Creating a playlist with music by artists who have experienced similar struggles can give you strength as well as comfort during this difficult transition.
When selecting tracks for your mini break up album, pick songs that speak to both of you – perhaps something sad but also hopeful or uplifting. If there was a special song associated with your relationship, consider including it in the mix; if not, find one that speaks to what is happening now. Additionally, look for lyrics and melodies that express feelings such as sadness, anger, regret, acceptance– whatever resonates most for each of you.
Assembling a breakup playlist does not mean having to relive all the pain; instead take some time to appreciate all the good moments shared together before saying goodbye. Listening to these tunes may bring back fond memories while helping you move forward on separate paths. Whether it’s upbeat pop songs or slower acoustic ballads – fill your personal collection with music that will provide solace during this hard time.
Conclusion
Breaking up is never easy, but it’s important to remember that you and your partner have the right to choose what makes them happy. Whether it be a mutual decision or one-sided, it can be beneficial to take some time away from each other in order to move forward with clarity. Taking small steps like creating a break up playlist and taking advantage of uncuffing season can help make this transition easier.
You don’t need anyone else’s permission to do what feels best for you and your significant other. It’s okay to set boundaries if something isn’t working out and seek space for yourself as needed. Even though it might feel uncomfortable at first, know that focusing on self-care during a breakup can serve as an empowering experience—allowing both parties involved to grow.
Ultimately, all relationships are unique; everyone has their own way of dealing with heartache and healing from loss. If you’re going through a breakup this summer, give yourself grace while navigating these uncertain waters. And above all else, remind yourself that even when things aren’t perfect, true growth comes with being brave enough to let go.
