Those of you who have cheated on someone in the past, have been cheated on, cheated on a test, or done anything with the hopes of getting away with it understand the lure and intrigue of deception and essentially “having your cake and eating it too.”
In terms of logic, it would be foolish to not try and cheat, if you know the probability and statistics of error. In terms of morals, it would be immoral to venture down that path. Yet, more often than not logic will defeat moral principles (or at least people will believe they are being logical at the time).
The lengths to which people will go once they have cheated also suggest that morals have nothing to do with their decision. The only moral decision may be to prevent the one they care about from being hurt, which may or may not be moral since it could be argued that “the truth shall set you free.”
A study published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, suggest that there is a way to detect cheaters that people naturally possess. This is based, researchers say, on the value system among others. In other words, when you are not receiving the pillars of a strong relationship that your significant other should be providing, a red flag goes up. This I believe is true, however, what if you’re dealing with an advanced mature cheater? He/She will do everything they can to make things seem normal and their cheating adventures a part of their everyday life to not cause suspicion. If they are cheating with a colleague at work for example, than it is even harder to detect because them staying late, or going business dinners is not out of the ordinary.
For those who scream, “cheaters never win,” think again! I spoke with a number of men and women that opened up about their cheating adventures (or misadventures, depending how you look at it) and found that none of them were ever discovered, or felt any remorse for their actions (they live to cheat another day).
Now I’m not trying to promote cheating. Instead I am telling a simple truth. I also found that a good number of people don’t want to know if their significant other is cheating.
Reasons:
· Their fragile hearts couldn’t take it
· They are happy with the way things are and ignorance is bliss
· They are guilty of relationship crimes themselves and are ok with quid pro quo
· They have an agenda of their own (i.e. financial security, etc.)
So, is it logical to cheat if you know you can get away with it? And what does it mean about your relationship if you can get away with it? People in relationships strive to give each other space, but how much space is too much space? I’m not so sure if cheaters never win.
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—— By: Michael Richie
Relationships are complex and ever-evolving. When it comes to fidelity, the stakes are even higher. Cheating can have a devastating impact on relationships, but there’s more to the story than meets the eye. In this article we explore why cheaters never win when it comes to relationships.
First, let’s look at why cheating is so destructive in relationships. It often brings feelings of betrayal and mistrust that can be difficult for couples to overcome. Moreover, if one partner feels as though they cannot trust their significant other, then it may lead them to question all aspects of their relationship, causing further damage.
Finally, we’ll examine how infidelity can also have an effect on self-esteem and self-worth. Cheating leaves partners feeling devalued and disrespected which can cause long lasting psychological damage. The consequences of cheating go far beyond the immediate pain felt by those involved; it has the potential to shape people’s views on love, trust and commitment for years to come.
Definition Of Cheating
Cheating is a term used to describe behavior that violates the rules or expectations of an activity. It can take many forms, from lying and stealing to manipulating relationships for personal gain. Cheaters often use dishonesty and deception in order to get ahead or win something they want. Though it may seem like a short-term solution, cheating rarely leads to long-term success as its consequences are usually more detrimental than beneficial.
When someone cheats their way through life, they risk damaging trust with those around them. People who cheat may be able to fool others initially but eventually their lies will catch up with them. If caught, it can lead to loss of respect and alienation from family members, friends, co-workers, and even society at large. In some cases, there could also be legal repercussions depending on the situation.
At its core, cheating never pays off because it goes against our moral values and ethical principles of fairness and honesty. While people may think they can get away with deceiving others once in awhile, ultimately it will come back to haunt them down the road.
Consequences Of Cheating
The consequences of cheating can be far-reaching and long-lasting. Not only does it undermine the trust between people, but it also erodes our sense of fairness, justice and morality. Cheating often leads to feelings of guilt, shame and regret from those who get caught or discover they have been deceived by someone else.
Additionally, cheaters may face serious repercussions for their actions – such as being expelled from school, getting fired from a job, or even facing legal charges if caught in an illegal act. Even if one gets away with cheating without any major negative consequences, there is still the issue of feeling guilty over betraying someone’s trust and knowing that you are not living up to your own standards.
Ultimately, while some may think they can benefit from deceiving others in the short term, in reality it doesn’t lead anywhere good. Those who cheat never truly win because ultimately everyone loses something when dishonesty prevails.
Conclusion
Cheating in any relationship is a destructive force that can cause long-term damage. It’s important to remember that cheaters never win, no matter what the situation may be. Cheating undermines trust and respect which are two essential components of a healthy relationship. Not only does it hurt those involved but it also robs them of the opportunity for genuine growth and connection.
The consequences of cheating can be severe and far reaching. In most cases, not only do you lose your partner’s trust, but you can also suffer from feelings of guilt and depression as well as potentially damaging your reputation amongst family and friends. Furthermore, if caught, there may be legal repercussions depending on the severity of the act committed.
Ultimately, it’s best to avoid cheating altogether to protect yourself and your loved ones from unnecessary pain and suffering. If you find yourself in an unhealthy or unhappy situation, seek help rather than turning to dishonest solutions – because in the end, cheaters never win!
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