Love: Do Men Think Long Distance Relationships Are A Waste Of Time?

Many women believe that long distance relationships are possible. Most men believe differentâ¦

THIS WOMAN IS SIDING WITH THE MEN

What makes long distance relationships so great? In my opinion nothing really. You hardly see the person, you probably only have sex once a month, expensive travel arrangements, you probably only have sex once a month, the question of faithfulness arises, and oh did I forget to mention â¦ You’ll probably only have sex once a monthâ¦ that’s if you’re lucky.

Now for me and some women we can limit the temptation of physical pleasure to a monthly/ bi â monthly activity . But a man’s sex drive can be a lot stronger at times. I find it hard to believe that many men can withstand the temptation of sexual indulgence for too long. Think about how horny your man gets and then think about how hard it would be for him to wait a whole month or 2 for sexual pleasure.

My Conclusion: It’s Got To Be Loveâ¦ Nothing else will make this situation work.

Let’s see what the men have to say about this one:

“Distance relationships, are setting yourself up for failure. I need to see my significant other. Months at a time isn’t good. Especially to remain faithful. Sorry.”

Kyle,24

“Waste of time depending on how long you will be distant and how far the distance is. A year at the most is okay. You gotta be able to see each other frequently.’That’s the only way I believe it can work.”

Joannes, 27

“If a relationship begins as a long distance relationship it is a waste of timeâ¦each partner didn’t spend enough time with their mate in order to build a strong bond so they can trust each other . This will most likely lead to a break up. On the other hand if two people have spent a lot of time together and then the relationship becomes long distance, I think they have a better chance of working things out because they have already built a strong bond while they were together. What’s the likely hood that the man will remain faithful? Not likely.”

Eli, 25

“I was approached with this situation not too long ago. A girl whom I was involved with moved, but wanted to continue on and I had to decline. Because I’ve been in a long distance relationship before and it takes a serious toll. It isn’t a waste of time it just takes a lot of just that, TIME and more so “effort.” Those who take up the challenge inherently feel that the relationship or person is worth it

Real talk: a man will remain faithful if 1. HE feels she is holding up her end of the bargain in terms of visiting and effort. 2. #realtalk: he will stay faithful if his “quota” of sexual needs is met. Now this may sound really bad and macho, but I kid you “if he isn’t getting all that he needs from you, he will find it else where.” And not necessarily with another woman he may turn to online porn, but it also doesn’t have to deal with physical, he may find company in a “friendship” with a woman that’s right down the block. All of the issues that can easily be resolved if the relationship wasn’t long distance.

Lance, 27

“Not all men disagree with LD relationships.”

Hear what they had to say on What Would a Man Do?” http://bit.ly/reu4L7

—— By: Chazeen of WWMD

Love. It’s the emotion that we all yearn for, and yet most of us are afraid to take a leap into it. But when two hearts meet, and they can’t be together physically due to distance, how do men view long-distance relationships? Is it worth the effort or just a waste of time? This article dives deep into this question by exploring the perspectives of men who have either been in a long-distance relationship or know someone close who has. We’ll look at whether men think these types of relationships are worth investing in, what challenges they come with, and tips on making them work if you decide to pursue one. So if you’re wondering about love over an extended physical distance – read on!

Definition Of A Long-Distance Relationship

A long-distance relationship is a type of romantic partnership where two individuals are separated by physical distance. It can be difficult to maintain the intimacy and connection that comes with being close in proximity, as communication is limited to phone calls, video chats, or text messages. Despite this challenge, many couples find ways to make their love endure over the miles.

One of the most difficult aspects of maintaining such a relationship is trust. Couples must be able to rely on each other for support even when they’re not together physically. This requires open and honest communication about feelings and expectations from both partners so that doubts don’t arise. Doing activities together virtually like watching movies or playing games can also help strengthen the bond between them.

When it comes to men’s views on long-distance relationships, opinions vary depending on individual circumstances and experiences. Some may view it as an unnecessary obstacle while others may see it as an opportunity for growth and exploration. Ultimately, whether or not one finds value in these types of relationships depends largely upon personal preference and dedication from both parties involved.

Pros And Cons Of Maintaining A Long-Distance Relationship

Long-distance relationships come with a unique set of challenges, but also offer their own rewards. To decide if it’s worth investing in such an arrangement, it’s important to consider both the pros and cons.

One major advantage is that couples have time apart to focus on themselves and work on personal growth. This can lead to increased independence, which can be beneficial for both individuals involved. Additionally, there are no geographical constraints when it comes to meeting each other halfway or exploring new places together. Couples can plan trips and visits around the world without having to worry about uprooting their lives from one area to another.

On the flip side, being physically separated makes communication more difficult and lacks spontaneity as well as physical affection like hugs or kisses. It also requires a great deal of trust between partners since they’re unable to keep tabs on one another all the time. Lastly, distance has been known to put strain on relationships due to conflicting schedules or differing priorities in life.

All things considered, long-distance relationships take dedication and commitment from both parties in order for them to succeed. Whether this kind of relationship works depends heavily upon how much effort each partner puts into making it work despite the obstacles they may face.

Conclusion

In conclusion, long-distance relationships can be both a challenging and rewarding experience for couples. It requires dedication and communication to make it work. People in these types of relationship will have to trust each other and not let jealousy or doubt get in the way. If you are willing to put in the effort, then a long-distance relationship is certainly worth considering.

It’s hard to say whether men think long distance relationships are a waste of time as opinions may differ from person to person. Everyone has their own unique circumstances when it comes to love and relationships so there is no one size fits all answer. Ultimately, it’s up to the individual couple to determine if they believe that the rewards outweigh any potential risks involved with maintaining a long-distance relationship.

At the end of the day, love should never be taken lightly regardless if you’re in a close or distant relationship. Whether you decide to enter into this type of arrangement depends on your own personal needs and desires, but also remember that nothing beats being able to share moments together face-to-face. Good luck!