We’ve all heard of some of the crazy things that go on between couples. Open relationships, swinging, threesomes, etc. We’ve also heard about women who don’t mind sitting next to their man and watching a porn flick. Personally, I still haven’t been able to wrap myself around that one. Me, with my crazy self would be asking, “Why do you need a movie when you have me here?” But, that’s just me.
Most women want to show their man that they are down for whatever, ride or die! So, is it really okay to go to a strip club with your man? Would he even want you there with him?
Many women say that they don’t have a problem sitting next to their man while he’s getting a lap dance or slapping some girl on her ass. Is it called insecurity for me to quote Whitney and say, “Hell to the naw!!” Some things are just better left alone. Besides, would your man be able to take sitting next to you while a male stripper was gyrating all up on you? I think not!
There are a different set of rules when it comes to male/female relationships. Some guys would think it is hot to watch their woman get a lap dance from another woman. These would probably also be the same guys who liked swinging and open relationships. I guess I’m just one of those old-fashioned girls who want what happens in the bedroom to stay in the bedroom! I once had a female send me an email telling me that her husband personally picked me out to have a threesome with the two of them. She even offered to pay for a plane ticket for me to come to their city. I replied by simply asking her how she could be sure that I wouldn’t return to her bedroom for round two without her, and even threw in a few bible verses. I didn’t hear from her anymore.
Be careful who and what you invite into your relationship!
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—— By: Tiffany Haggerty
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