TLC singer turned reality television star Chilli is finally clearing the air on her relationship with Usher. Not only does she admit to breaking up with him during an episode of ‘What Chilli Wants,’ she lets it be known that Usher has traits that are “never going away”. Admitting that her heart stills says “I love him, I want to be with him,” Chilli tells a mental health professional (on her reality series ‘What Chilli Wants’) “it just wasn’t working”. “It was just a relationship I didn’t feel I could be in for the rest of my life. At the end of the day, when you’re going to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you gotta look at people’s faults,” says Chilli. “There are traits that are not going anywhere I could not live with for the rest of my life.” Now on the search for the ‘love of her life,’ Chilli chooses to let her mind come first instead of her heart, which she admits has gotten her into trouble before. Watch the “Waterfalls” and “Dumb, Dumb, Dumb” singer’s reality series, “What Chilli Wants,’ Sundays on VH1.