Hey Folks,
I just wanted to introduce myself. I am the "Nice Guy." You probably know me. I usually talk to you after work so you can vent and then go talk or be with the person you really want to be with. You usually tell me we need to find you a nice girl or you just completely ignore me. Well Singersroom has given me an open platform to express myself. So today I took a couple of old school songs I like that make me think of some questions I would love to ask some women.
There is so much focus on what the female is thinking and what questions they have for men. Women are always trying to "think like a man," but in this day and age when women, in many cases, are running the show, men also have questions. Some of these questions might come from "insecurity" or just curiosity, but there are so many questions men have pertaining to women. I guess relations between men and women would be easier if we had all the answers or maybe not. Check some of these questions out and while you're doing that I encourage men as well as women to comment with questions of your own. Let's talk and figure out what each other is thinking.
1. "Why do "good guys" finish last if women always are talking about looking for a "good guy"?
Jazmine Sullivan – In Love With Another Man
2. "What does "he is TOO nice" mean? (I thought nice was good?)"
Babyface – Two Occasions (Babyface you're way too nice!)
3. "Do you still love him?" (If he asked that he will automatically be labeled insecure even if it's true. Weird but true.)
Carl Thomas – I Wish
4. Do you have to listen to your friends for everything?
Jon B. – They Don't Know
5. So you want me to be funny, serious, sensitive, tough, focused, all about you, etc? Could you just love me just for me?
Special Generation – Love Me Just For Me
6. Do women really look up to all these women on these reality shows? Do they all expect to live that life?
Rell – Love For Free
7. What does your independency mean? How does that affect the way I treat you and my role? Do you have to tell me you're independent all the time? Why are you not independent when the bill, Valentine's Day, Christmas or your birthday rolls around?
Ne-Yo – Miss Independent
8. Is this how you really are or will you act crazy in a couple months?
Tamia – Stranger In My House
9. I think you're the one for me, but am I the one for you?
112 – Only You
Hi-Five – She's Playing Hard To Get
10. Will you be around when times get rough? (Lose my job, not seeing eye to eye on relationship issues etc.)
New Edition – Can You Stand The Rain
Bonus Song
This Wale song is a little different because for one it makes me think of multiple questions and two it is a rap song. Check it out.
Wale – The Break Up Song
Best Regards,
"Nice Guy"
Are you a ‘Nice Guy’? Do you find yourself wondering how to navigate relationships with women? If so, this article will provide insight from 10 songs that explore the complexities of female relationships. Through song lyrics, thoughtful reflection on these issues can help guide our understanding and foster meaningful connections. Read on for an exploration into the struggles of being a “Nice Guy” in today’s world and potential ways to work through them.
The term “Nice Guy” has taken on new meaning in recent years as it is often used by men who feel they are not getting what they want out of relationships with women despite their best efforts. It implies frustration, entitlement, and bitterness all at once. However, instead of resenting society or other people, exploring the emotions behind such feelings can be helpful in learning more about ourselves and finding balance within our own lives.
Music has been one way many have expressed themselves throughout history and present day artists continue to do so through thought-provoking lyrics. In this article we’ll look at 10 different songs that bring up challenging questions about what it means to be a “Nice Guy” today – allowing us to reflect further upon our own relationships with those around us. We hope these insights encourage self-growth and understanding towards others – so let’s get started!
Male Perspective On Relationships
For many men, it’s not easy to open up about their thoughts on relationships. Men often feel like they need to be strong and take care of the women in their lives without sharing too much of their own feelings or fears. That’s why songs can provide a great outlet for expressing emotions that might otherwise stay hidden away inside. Here are 10 songs that offer an interesting male perspective on relationships and can help spark conversations with female partners.
The first song is “I Don’t Want To Miss A Thing” by Aerosmith. This classic rock ballad speaks to a man who feels deeply connected to his partner and doesn’t want to miss out on any part of the relationship. He expresses his desire to never let her go and always be there for her no matter what may come their way. It is a touching look into how one man values his connection with another person and wants nothing more than to make sure she knows he cares about her deeply.
John Mayer’s “Gravity” provides insight into the power dynamics between two people in a relationship. The protagonist describes himself as being pulled in by her gravity, unable to resist even though he knows he should try harder at times. With lyrics such as “gravity is working against me/and gravity wants to bring me down,” this song captures the weighty feeling that comes from loving someone so intensely while recognizing you don’t have complete control over them or your feelings towards them.
Finally, Jason Mraz’s hit single “I’m Yours” offers a sweet ode to unconditional love and acceptance within relationships. In it, Mraz sings of wanting his lover to know he will always be there for her regardless of what happens between them, declaring: “If you’re ready/ I’m willing and able; far as I’m concerned you’re perfectly imperfect/ And I’m yours.” His words convey the idea that real love means accepting each other just as they are – flaws and all – which is something both genders can appreciate hearing once in awhile!
Music As A Reflection Of Feelings
Music has long been recognized as a reflection of our deepest emotions, and this is especially true when it comes to relationships. Through song lyrics, we can express how we feel in ways that might otherwise be too difficult or embarrassing to communicate face-to-face. It’s no wonder then why so many artists have chosen to explore the complexities of love through their music. From heartfelt ballads about devotion to more lighthearted tunes about flirtation, these songs can provide an intimate look into what men really think and feel when it comes to their relationships with women.
Listening to these types of songs can also create opportunities for meaningful conversations between partners. By asking questions such as “What do you think the artist was trying to say here?” or “How does this lyric make you feel?” couples can open up dialogue around topics they may not normally discuss with one another. Not only will this help both parties better understand each other, but it could even give them fresh perspectives on their relationship that they hadn’t considered before!
So whether it’s used for self-reflection or sparking conversation, music provides a powerful tool for exploring male thoughts on female relationships – something every couple should take advantage of from time to time.
Conclusion
I think it’s important to remember that everyone has their own unique experiences and perspectives of relationships. As a “nice guy”, I can relate to the struggles of navigating through different types of connections with women. Music is often an effective way for me to express my feelings on these issues, so by creating this list of songs inspiring female relationship questions, I’m hoping others may be able to identify with similar topics as well.
Ultimately, I believe honest conversations are essential in order to build healthy relationships. It’s worth taking the time to really listen and understand each other’s points of view before making assumptions or jumping into conclusions. We all need someone who we feel comfortable being vulnerable with, and if we’re willing to put in the effort then there should be no limits when it comes to expressing our thoughts and emotions about love and life.
As long as we continue having real talks about what matters most, then perhaps more men will find themselves better equipped in understanding how to have successful relationships with women. That said, even though music can provide comfort during tough times, nothing beats meaningful conversation between two people who genuinely care for one another.