It comes as no surprise that winning the heart of someone as sought after as Kelly Rowland would be a difficult task. So if you’re looking to impress the ‘Motivation’ hitmaker, make sure you put your best foot forward. In a recent interview with ESSENCE Rowland reveals that, “In the first twenty minutes with somebody, I know if the date is not going to go well.” With only twenty minutes to make a lasting impression on the diva, she expresses her biggest turn-offs and turn-ons in hopes of “motivating” the right man to find her.
What type of man could make the very busy Rowland slow down? She says, “He’s got to have great confidence.” Rowland goes on to explain, “He’s got to be assured in himself as a man and have great goals. Ambition looks so sexy on anybody. Plus, I think it’s really important for him to have a great sense of humor. That’s just so sexy to me.”
Confidence, ambition, goal-oriented and a sense of humor – is there anything else that turns Rowland’s head? She reveals that flirting is another requirement in finding Mr. Right. With a huge grin across her face Kelly tells ESSENCE, “Oh, I’m a big fan of flirting.” She adds, “Just the little things, like when you can wink at me from the other side of the room and you make me feel like I’m the flyest chick in there, or if you pinch my butt when I’m leaving the room and don’t nobody else see it. That’s the best! That stuff just drives me nuts, and I’m like, oh my God, let’s go home – right now!”
Men, now that you have a run-down of what Ms. Kelly finds most attractive, it’s only fair to tell you that guys with big egos always get the cold shoulder with her. “Arrogance is just so unnecessary, she frowns and says. She ends with, “I do like for [a man] to be a little bit cultured. I think that is so nice. For them to be closed-minded to even trying something new, now that’s not gonna work. I mean, you don’t even want to try it? No. Please romance me because I deserve to be romanced.”
It doesn’t seem like she’s asking for anything impossible men. She just wants what all women want. Do you think that you could be the one to make Kelly Ro settle down?
Kelly Rowland is one of the most prolific and successful singers in recent memory. After a career spanning nearly two decades, she has laid down her dating guidelines for potential suitors – “I deserve to be romanced”. With such an impressive track record both on stage and off, what does Kelly look for in a partner? In this article, we take a deep dive into Kelly’s thoughts on romance and relationships, exploring why she feels so strongly that she deserves to be courted with respect. Read on to find out more about this icon’s unique approach to love and companionship.
From Destiny’s Child through to becoming an entrepreneur, author, actress and judge on ‘The Voice Australia’, it seems there’s nothing Kelly can’t do! But while her professional life is thriving, when it comes to matters of the heart, things are a little different. The 39-year-old singer recently revealed that she believes in chivalry being alive and well – even if it means waiting for someone who truly appreciates her worth.
In an interview with Grazia magazine UK last year, Kelly made it clear that she won’t settle for anything less than true romance: “We’re all deserving of having someone court us; make us feel special,” She said. “And I’m not talking about gifts…it should come from within.” So how exactly does Kelly want to be romanced? Let’s explore further as we uncover the ins and outs of this superstar’s dating rules…
Kelly Rowland’s Views On Relationships
Relationships can be a tricky thing to navigate, especially in today’s day and age. Kelly Rowland has gone on record with her views of what she expects out of a relationship. She believes that respect is key, while also making sure both parties are getting the attention they need.
“I deserve to be romanced,” says Rowland when it comes to relationships. “If I’m giving my all, then I want somebody who is going to give their all too.” This means not only being treated well but being taken care of in an emotional sense as well. Respectful communication and understanding each other’s needs are important for any successful relationship according to the singer-songwriter.
Rowland emphasizes that taking time for yourself away from your partner is just as important as spending time together. Taking care of oneself mentally and physically should always come first before tending to another person’s needs; this allows individuals to remain independent yet still connected within the partnership. The singer stresses that having a good balance between independence and companionship will bring harmony into any type of relationship dynamic.
The Singer’s Expectations In Love
Rowland is a firm believer that love should be passionate and exciting. She has expectations of her partner to keep things interesting, as she believes that life should never become too mundane or predictable when in a relationship. A sense of adventure and spontaneity are important for keeping the flame alive between two people.
The singer also prefers someone who can make her laugh, citing humor as an essential component of any successful relationship. According to Rowland, laughter helps build trust and creates stronger connections with one another – something which cannot be overlooked in any partnership.
In addition to having respect for each other, Rowland wants someone who will challenge her intellectually and help push her to better herself. This includes stimulating conversations about topics such as current events, culture, art, politics – anything which would spark an engaging dialogue between them both. Ultimately, it’s these qualities which truly show genuine interest from one person towards the other; qualities which Kelly Rowland looks for in any potential partner.
Conclusion
In conclusion, Kelly Rowland has a clear vision of what she wants in a relationship. She emphasizes the importance of understanding and respect as well as communication. At the same time, she is not afraid to express her desires for romance and courtship. This shows that while relationships can be hard work, they are also worth investing in if both people understand each other’s needs and expectations. Ultimately, Kelly knows exactly what she deserves from love and isn’t willing to compromise on it. Her standards serve as an inspiration for those who want to find someone special or make their current relationship even better. With these guidelines in mind, we can all strive for healthy connections with our partners!
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